tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7994682204786093434.post7418790752863333..comments2024-03-04T09:28:15.253+05:30Comments on Do I write?: He gets on my nerves too much...~nmhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16483363042572158612noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7994682204786093434.post-74241145482205875102007-09-16T15:20:00.000+05:302007-09-16T15:20:00.000+05:30Oh my Gosh! I didn't know this habit of Rishab cou...Oh my Gosh! I didn't know this habit of Rishab could last so long. This could have been written by me. After a year of working on this problem, my solution to your problem would be that you try to do one activity with him. The important thing about it is you have to BE with him. Choose something which you like as well. Make a routine so that you can get used to it and he knows afterwards, it is time for him to play on his own or that Mumma will do something else now. He will protest in the beginning. But then if you have played with him for a while you can continue with your work withpout feeling guilty either. No solution is perfect, and there are days where I get too busy to do anything with him, or although i try but I am somewhere else in my thoughts. But I know that he deserves my Full (undiverted) attention every now and then. He has the right to it. I am with him practically 24 hours a day but that also does not make a difference. And you get so lavishly rewarded with kisses and "Mumma I love you". These things happen only when I LISTEN to him and spend TIME (undiverted attention) with him. Just now I reacted to his request to give him something (which he couldn't have taken on his own) without his asking it to me 3-4 times(which is the case so often :()and I was surprised to see the gleaming eyes and his happniess. AS I keep saying i am working on it.PGhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03509732589537039753noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7994682204786093434.post-35032251294099047442007-09-16T00:27:00.000+05:302007-09-16T00:27:00.000+05:30hahaha....bhery bhery funny situation :-)hahaha....bhery bhery funny situation :-)Stonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16053118951693455094noreply@blogger.com